Monday, December 06, 2004

Men!!

men!!! why are they so frustrating?
I was up to my armpits in work last week, not to mention running the girls everywhere and I still managed to fit in 5 house viewings as well as the hunting for the houses in the first place.
Then having found 2 that were nice I get the other half to come and look. Finally finally we find one that he likes the look of.
What happens next....? nothing, not a thing, he goes quiet on me the rest of the way home, broods about things till its time for him to head back down south and not a word of what's on his mind even when I ask.
Then today I think, what am I going to say when the estate agent calls - I mean its me at the end of the phone trying to think of something not him, but I have no control over getting his house done or sold.
So I get an email at the exact moment the estate agent rings to see what we thought. What does it say? basically - tell them what you like, its a nice house but we can't do anything about moving to it as mine isn't sold. He even then mentions doing up his place in hull and living there.... which not so long ago was completely out of the question.
Reading between the lines I do wonder if he just wants to move back there himself and go back to being single - he certainly was grumpy this weekend and it felt like he wanted to be alone. i know I wasn't fantastic and I am grumpy myself, but he was even worse. For the first time since we've been together he made me feel like the girls were in the way - something my ex used to do to them all the time and he hasn't ever done so far.
Maybe I'm just stressed with work that is going to ratshit and I'm tired and need a break not running about with chrismas looming. I don't know.
So I sent him a grumpy mail back and I've not heard from him at all.... makes me wonder if I'm ever going to hear from him again.